It was the last word of a young JE JE Aspirant, before she ended her life after knowing that she was not worthy. A child who once dreamed, studied and hoped, now gone. Imagine his parents’ status. Sadly the dissolved weight and endless what ifs. A mother and father left mentally going through memories, repeating the conversation in their head, wondering if their words that were to encourage, inadvertently added her burden. Surprisingly, if they missed the signs, if they could catch him closely, he was more convinced, told him that she was enough, no matter what. But now, nothing will ever be the same again.

Google ‘Student suicide‘And you will get the title after the title. Amu student kills himself. The insect student kills himself. Official data shows that every 40 seconds, someone dies of suicide. Now imagine how many children try it, the number is terrible.

In a special conversation, Dr. Zirak marker, a child, teen and family psychiatristHighlights a disturbing tendency – especially among young girls intentionally self -unique. “Many people cut themselves as their thighs, weapons, as a copying mechanism. The body dismorphia is on a large scale. Anxiety and depression is at an all -time high level. Add that screen addiction, increasing drug abuse, misuse of social media and other risky behaviors. They are having sexual identification-based issues, not with the increase in children on autism spectrum and inability to learn. ,

But why is this happening?

“We have to understand that this generation is exposed to age-unfair material. They have access to information which causes constant overstimulation. They require immediate satisfaction, a quick improvement for every issue. They struggle with frustration, and internet and social media only make it worse. ,

More children are becoming ruthless. Subtle bullying is becoming common. They make fun of others based on their socio-economic background, skin color, religion and even disabled. ,

Where are the parents going wrong?

Parenting styles such as tiger parenting, helicopter parenting, and all are the worst in snowoplo parenting. These parents remove every challenge, sometimes even before this happens. They create eligibility in children, protect their children from mistakes rather than allowing them to learn from them. As a result, children are never given results for their tasks. So when they eventually face real-world stress, where their parents have no control, they are uprooted. They do not know how to face.

“The requirement of the hour is parents who discipline. Parents need to understand that their children cannot be their friends. If their children go down from a risky path, they should have difficult interactions and provide age-appropriate explanation. Every wrong way should be a result. At the same time, the channel of communication should remain open, so if a child makes a mistake, they have the confidence and courage to come back and accept it. Parents avoid talking about dating, rape, boundaries and sex, leaving this generation to find out on their own, often from aged sources. ,

“If your teenage is dating, you can’t refuse it, but you need to teach them about boundaries. They need to understand that physical and emotional readiness is that participation in things can have a serious consequence. Not only parents, but schools also need to talk and talk about age-appropriate education.

We have seen cases where a boy and girl voluntarily enters a relationship, but when it ends, the girl accuses the sexual harassment. Conditions like these highlighted why children should be educated about POCSO and other laws – both who protect them and who can trouble them. They need to understand how serious false allegations can be. ,

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The bullying is increasing, and we need to talk about why. “A bully psychology often suggests that they are also suffering, either in their personal life or due to some social failures that they faced. Educating children on this can help transfer perspective. There is no bullying strength or anything that you see cold, it is a sign of weakness. The victims should be empowered, and therefore they should have the audience. A child has the most important quality a good heart. ,

Talking about Ranveer Allahbadia and Samay Raina controversy, Dr. The marker indicated its harmful effects. “It can have a very negative effect on children. Creasted in crusting and trolling, crude language only encourages them to believe that the more porn they are, the more fun they make sounds. Joking is fine – as long as the person is laughing with you, not on you. ,

Dr. Markers are speaking at the Mpowering Minds Youth Mental Health Summit to be held in Mumbai after reopening the story about mental health in India.

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